Speaking of listening would you ever listen to, this one a lot of sense possessed by every living creature. As it turns out there is listening to the procedure how to listen well. When you listen, focus on what is being said, not what you want from the conversation. Manners teaches us to care about others, including the words - spoken word, with a smile, and caring.
“Jika anda adalah pendengar
yang baik, orang lain mengaggap anda sebagai orang yang enak diajak bercakap –
cakap,” cited by Hermine Hartley.
Things - things you do while listening:
- Look who is talking.
- Focus on those things that are being discussed.
- Do not let your attention split.
- You do not look nervous, his mouth yawned, glanced at the clock, indifferent,
- Be active asking and answering.
A boring person in the talks was that kept talking, even though there are others who interrupted to ask. You do not have to listen to the conversations make you feel uncomfortable listening to him. Out of courtesy, whenever you are free to leave the conversation that contains:
- Gossip
- Dirty jokes
- Offensive jokes ethnic
- Speak ill of others
- Persuaded to do evil.
There was also a lot of things to avoid in a conversation - a conversation that the conversation is like asking a personal matter, as a matter of finances, weight, body size, religion, age, (especially with women) and others who are sensitive. And if someone were to ask you this - the sensitive or the nature of privacy, do not hesitate - hesitate, answer with words - words, "We better not have to talk about it anymore."
By: Discerning Brain
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